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I had my first son at 15, I was a junior in high School, I was very smart, GPA was never below 3.5, I wanted to be a Doctor but after I had the baby, things just were never the same, I was not able to go back to School, now I work as a cashier in a local store, my son is 12 years old, and I am still single, I could write a Book about the hardship I have been through in the past 12 years both financially, and mentally, the drama of what happened as soon as I got pregnant and after the Baby was born , the guy that claimed to love me before I got pregnant became my enemy, he became a stranger, he first denied to be the father of my baby until paternity test was done, my life was over but
his life was not affected in any way, he went on to College became a Doctor and married to another woman.

How did this happen to me?
I was a very quiet girl from a middle class family, goes to Church every Sunday, my mom and Dad talked to me about not having sex but when it happened, it was like "I just didn't know how it happened" I wanted to be like these other girls at School (popular) I wanted to have a boyfriend and of course, I was hiding it from my parents, One day, I told my mom that I was going to my friend's house a few blocks away, I went and met my boyfriend in his friend's house because his friend's parent were not home and it happened, I didn't want it to happen.

He said he loved me and I wanted to please him.
Those few minutes ruined my life, I became
*A pregnant 15 year old
*I missed all the fun of my late teenage and adolescent years
*I became a single mom
*A high School drop-out
*My income is low, I do not have job security
*I am still single

I constantly think back and know that those few minutes ruined my Life while he (the guy) went on with his life.

My niece is 16 years old and she just had a baby 5 weeks ago, her life is starting to be a mirror of mine, she is going through the same thing I went through. taking care of the baby by herself, has no life of her own, cannot even hang out with her friends, she cries all the time and wishes she can turn back the clock and not get pregnant but it is too late.

I feel obligated, I do not want this to continue to happen to another young girl.

How many girls have heard the expression
"True Love waits" Thousands!!!

Of course, I was one of the thousands who always think that if a boy really loves me, he will wait, I was determined BUT WHEN THE TIME CAME TO SAY NO I FAILED AND I HAD SEX AND GOT PREGNANT.

So parents you may tell your daughter about sex all you can, you can tell them a millionn time why not to have sex and all that stuff but it still could happen, if it happened to me, it could happen to anyone and believe me it is happening to girls every day.

I will like to stop this, I do not want this to happen to another Girl, but how? I am constantly thinking of what I can do.

How can I stop it from happening to someone else, what can I do?

Ok, I came up with the idea for a Blog -I will be writing articles but you and I know that there are thousands of Blog pages, thousands of articles and Books that writes about Relationship, teenage pregnancy, peer pressure and all that, but that will not stop teenage pregnancy.

My parents bought me books, I read it but I still got pregnant. so what will help ?
it has been proven that people learn better from what they see than what they hear or read, Your daughter will remember and respond to messages on T-shirts than thousand hours of talking to them or reading any Book you buy for them

So we are starting a campaign, we want to tell the guy that if their love is real, they should wait, we want to tell them that by even asking or making the move the love they are proclaiming is not real.

We are asking you to join us in this campaign, we can only succeed if we let everyone know that we are watching, we will not only reduce teenage pregnancy, we will also reduce the heartbreak a girl feels when the guy have sex with her and moves on to the next girl

We want to wear it on over, we want to stick it on our Cars, we are encouraging everyone to buy a T-shirt and wear it, we want these campaign to get bigger than wearing top name Brands like Nike, Calvin Klein and Lacoste, G-Unit or Sean John.
We can do this for our Girls, their future is priceless

NOTE: You do not have to have a daughter to buy a shirt or a sticker
Support our campaign !
Support the future of young girls !!
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Young Girls also will learn better when someone who has been pregnant and had a baby is telling them how not to be in the same situation.

Young people learn better when questions are being answered and they are encouraged to ask questions too

In my blogsite: HOW TO WAIT, my niece and I will be answering questions from Girls who have questions that they cannot ask their mom and dad or their face to face friends


I will be writing related articles weekly but the site will be mostly devoted to questions and answers by myself and my Niece and other teen moms that I will presceen

Blog articles will include topics like:

Why you have to believe that True Love waits

How do I have a relationship without having Sex


What do I if I am facing pressure from my Boy friend to have Sex.

Talk to me first

Apart from pregnancy Having sex may result in lifetime Psychological regrets if the relationship does not lead to marriage

Join us in the campaign, help us make it a Big one

What to do now

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Visit our Blog How to Wait, refer the site to any youg girl

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May 8, 2008

You are in Love and you are Unhappy, Is that Stupid or what?

Unhappy moments are caused by: what the man is doing or what he is not doing. what you as a woman is doing or not doing.
Why is it that many are unhappy in their relationships?, Can we continue to blame men for our unhappiness? the answer is No, Is you partner aware of what makes you happy or what makes you unhappy.

To be happy in a relationship, each person have to know how to makes the other happy and stay away from what makes them unhappy. If your relation is not happy and you will like to learn if your unhappy relationship can be helped, I have a treat for you:

Scott Kudia wrote a Book Titled: If This is Love, Why Am I Unhappy?

Scott is a Bestseller, co-author and popular Relationship Specialist, he uncovers the hidden issues that sabotage relationships. He wrote that:

To have a successful and happy relationship, you have to:


  • Discover how your two greatest needs and your two biggest fears can either support or destroy your relationship.

  • Unravel how what you learned from your parents as a child may be damaging your relationships today and what you can do about it.

  • Discover the three little things you can do that will make the biggest difference in your relationships.
Make the three changes and experience for yourself how much better your relationship can be. , Relationship Specialist, Scott Kudia, Ph.D., has empowered thousands to overcome their obstacles and experience a better love life. Scott's innovative work combines traditional psychology with the latest cutting edge technologies giving you the power to create more fulfilling relationships.

His seminars are some of the most unique and powerful relationship events in the world. Scott's passionate and inspirational speaking style always leaves his audience enlightened, empowered, and thoroughly entertained. Above all, they leave with the ability to connect more deeply with their partner and ultimately get more from their relationships.

I cannot begin to tell you how this Book will change your life and relationship, to order Click here

If you are still unhappy after you and your Partner read this Book, In my opinion, what you have between you is not Love.

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