Having sex too soon

The greatest mistake any woman can make is to have sex with a man without connecting with him emotionally.

Sex should be the last thing to come in all the things that will come between you and any man.

The man you meet does not know who you are so he will make the move to have Sex with you even on the first date but you are the one who have the Control.

If you carry yourself respectfully on the first few dates and avoid having sex or making yourself look needy you will start to see a change in the way the man will treat you. If you have been reading the previous articles, you should know by now how to avoid Body languages and words that will make you look like a needy person.

The mistake some women make is thinking if they have Sex with a man he will be attached to them emotionally

WRONG !!! IT IS THE OPPOSITE

Men knows the difference between emotional and sexual connection, You have to attract a man emotionally before you have Sex with you, if you don't you will be heart broken......Guaranteed

How do you avoid having sex too early:

• You have to be friends and date for a long time.
• You have to avoid being at home alone, invite friends with you on outings
• Talk candidly that you will not have sex until you are ready and you see that he is not a player.
• End the relationship if he is not respecting your wish.

Train him to get attached to you emotionally by being who you are, let him see you without make-up many times, let him see you when you are sad, tired, angry, wearing a sweatshirt and be a be fulfilling to him emotionally before you have Sex.

The Bottom line is....... let many months go by with you knowing each other, these will give you the opportunity to both be in many different situations and grow your emotional connection. you will be amazed how soon a man will want to commit to you if you do not have sex with him, you may even get a proposal in 6 months or less.
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Why didn’t he call?

Sometimes when a guy doesn’t call, you may be thinking “He just didn’t like you.” that may be the end of that relationship, but sometimes he will call few days later and give you excuses, like I have been on a Business trip or I was in jail: what excuse is really acceptable? and does a man really have to call back the next day or what is the standard?

He may feel a vibe from you during your date that tells him that you are not ready for a long time relationship due to your career goal and this may be contrary to his goal or you may be ready to settle down while he is not


He may have just recently got out of a relationship, and so trying to approach a relationship with you cautiously because he is not sure if he could be going back to the old relationship, a friend of mine dated a guy who confessed to her after 13 months of relationship that he was still communicating with his Ex and that those times he was not with her he was with his Ex and so he could not call as often as he should be calling he confessed that he wanted to be with Victory. He was too distracted and confused to be consistent with her.

He may be dating someone else. most guys have the habit of dating two women or more at once. there is no way to know this in the beginning of your relationship, you just have to take things slowly too, do not have the attitude of wanting to have him to yourself right now, this kind of behaviour will run him off, just take the relationship as casually as he is taking it and continue to know as much as you can about him without any sexual relationship. Give him time to sort himself out.

Even if things don’t play out by the Book or as a fairytale beginning, that doesn’t mean there isn’t potential for it to work out, “There are no universal rules.” remember that there are dozens of reasons why your last night’s date is not calling. if you’re in the right relationship, you’ll know it eventually—but do not base it on whether he called the next day or not. So next time you’re sitting by the phone, waiting for that call, relax, don't feel so bad, not every date has a follow-up call the next date and the reason why he did not call may not have anything to do with you.

But as the relation grows, he should start to be more reliable and you should feel the "One man, One woman relationship" if you don't you should end the relationship

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Marriage proposal in 6-12 months or less

By Bob Grant,a L.P.C.(Licensed Professional Counselor) "The Relationship Doctor" wrote:

Stop waiting for love to find you..."You Can Find the Man of Your Dreams -- and Receive a Marriage Proposal in 6 to 12 Months or Less" A Proven Step-by-Step Plan for Finding the Love of Your Life.
He wrote further:
What are the top 3 attributes or traits of your dream man? (Check 3 items from list below):

• Confidence (exudes power)
• Sense of Humor (fun-loving)
• Money (has wealth or earns a high income)
• Good looks Mystery, excitement, unpredictability (or "bad boy" qualities)
• Intelligence Sensitivity (caring, loving, thoughtful, sweet, romantic)
• Spirituality Family-Oriented (loves children, wants to have a family)
• Other - Specify:
  Okay, are you done choosing the top 3 attributes or traits of your dream man? Now, let me ask you a question: How long have you been waiting for your dream man to show up in your life? How long have you been waiting for love to find you? If you're like most women, from the time you were old enough to think, you've dreamed that one day your Prince Charming would come along -- and he would sweep you off your feet, and you'd live happily ever after, right? But it hasn't happened -- and you're still waiting, aren't you?You're not alone. There are countless women who are in the same boat as you. Consider the following: ↓
  FACT: A study by The New York Times and the Census bureau has shown that more than half of the adult women in America are single. This is the first time in history that the number of single women in America -- 50 million -- has exceeded the number of married women.
  Imagine ... there are now over 50 million single women in America -- and the number of single women in other countries is just as staggering. But unfortunately, being in the company of millions of single women doesn't make you feel any less lonely or discouraged, does it? Chances are, you've begun to ask yourself, 'What's wrong with me? Why can't I find a wonderful man who wants to marry me?'

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Office dating, To-do or NOt-to-do

This raises a lot of question on who you are dating or eyeing in your office: if you are eyeing of dating your Boss, or anyone in a position that can directly or indirectly influence your progress like promotion or raise, you are looking for Trouble.

Saying No to a relationship with your boss or anyone in position of authority at work shows that you have self control and self esteem which are 2 qualities you need to land the kind of relationship that will give you lasting happiness.

But what you both like each other......oh love each other?, as some will say that sometimes you cannot control who you fall in love with.

It will happen, because after all we spend a great deal of our lives at work and it is possible that we find someone who we are attracted to, I know a few people who have found love at work, if this happen make sure both of you are in control and know how to separate business and pleasure. That means:

• No hooking up in the paper supply room (and not just because of wanting to avoid paper cuts).
• Keep the relationship secret as much as you can.
• No using office Time to take Lunch time extensively
• No using Office computer or Phone to call or Email each other.
• Date someone in another department.
• Be focused on your work, so your relationship does not negatively affect your productivity.
• By no means; Do not date your married Boss
• If you have to tell anyone about the Romance, it is better to tell someone out of the office.
• Read your Company policy again, if it explicitly stated that office romance is against company policy consider before you accept a date if it worth losing your job over a relationship.

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What not to say

Never tell a guy on the first few dates:

• Details about your past relationships.
• Why your past relationship ended.
• Do not make any comment about any material things he may have, like Car, Wrist watch that may suggest you are over impressed.
• About any family misfortune like someone in Jail.
• About any financial difficulties you may be having.
• Refuse to discuss Sexual fantasies, no sex talks.
• About any problem with anyone at work.
• About bad relationship of any of your family member or friend.

Say as less as you can, listen more, there is a lot of information you will get from a man if you just listen, there is a reason why we have 2 ears and 1 mouth, so listen twice as much as you talk.

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In order to be walked on, you have to be lying down.

This saying is true both technically and emotionally, look at it like this, Technically, I do not care how tall you are, no one can walk on you, say you are 4 feet tall, only a giant over 9 to 10 feet can walk on you when you are standing up.

Emotionally, if someone is treating you badly and you let him get away with it over and over again you will continue to be a doormat.

Yes, you hear ma right, you have to be the one to control what people do to you and in this case "A Man".
A man will treat you the way you want to be treated, I have heard men say that they have always not treat women right but when they meet a kind of Girl that commands respect, they change and they fall in love with her.

Some Hints on what will make you someone not to be worked on:

• Show confidence in the way you walk: Head up, Shoulder back, maintain eye contact.
  
• Play hard to get, if you do not know how, learn it (as I have been writing in
  most of previous articles)


• Don't fall in love too soon.


• Practice safety.


• Let him know you are waiting for certainty before you fall in love.


• Do not dress Provocatively.


• Be conservative especially at the beginning of the relationship; space out your dates, pick public places for your dates, no overnight dates.


• Do not do things that will make him think you are falling too soon, e.g calling too frequently, kissing or having sex too soon, introducing him to your family too soon.


• Even if you are falling, control it, do not be the aggressive one when you kiss or when you have Sex.


• Reserve every moves and technique you know about Sex until you are married or at least engaged.


• Try not to laugh hysterically at everything he says even if he is George Lopez, a light smile is OK.


• Avoid touching him when you are talking.


• Avoid Sex talks at the early part of the relationship.


• If you have to talk about Sex, your body language must show respect for the subject, maintain composure, no laughing, just a smile will do.


• Avoid putting yourself in a situation that will make you compromise; No home visits until you trust him.


• Do not trust him by what he says, trust by what you see and can confirm, over a long period of time.
• Never overlook a disrespectful statement made about you or any other woman as a joke.


• Say No and mean No, do not look back, when you say no, do not leave any option for compromise.

These list are just the basics, as we go along, many things you learn as you read the articles in this blog and some of our favorite Books will show the man that you are different.

Men will fall in Love with a woman who is different from the others they have dated in the past, and believe me, that includes playing hard to get........they love it.

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You are in Love and you are Unhappy, Is that Stupid or what?

Unhappy moments are caused by: what the man is doing or what he is not doing. what you as a woman is doing or not doing.
Why is it that many are unhappy in their relationships?, Can we continue to blame men for our unhappiness? the answer is No, Is you partner aware of what makes you happy or what makes you unhappy.

To be happy in a relationship, each person have to know how to makes the other happy and stay away from what makes them unhappy. If your relation is not happy and you will like to learn if your unhappy relationship can be helped, I have a treat for you:

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Scott is a Bestseller, co-author and popular Relationship Specialist, he uncovers the hidden issues that sabotage relationships. He wrote that:

To have a successful and happy relationship, you have to:

• Discover how your two greatest needs and your two biggest fears can either support or destroy your relationship.


• Unravel how what you learned from your parents as a child may be damaging your relationships today and what you can do about it.


• Discover the three little things you can do that will make the biggest difference in your relationships.

Make the three changes and experience for yourself how much better your relationship can be. , Relationship Specialist, Scott Kudia, Ph.D., has empowered thousands to overcome their obstacles and experience a better love life. Scott's innovative work combines traditional psychology with the latest cutting edge technologies giving you the power to create more fulfilling relationships.

His seminars are some of the most unique and powerful relationship events in the world. Scott's passionate and inspirational speaking style always leaves his audience enlightened, empowered, and thoroughly entertained. Above all, they leave with the ability to connect more deeply with their partner and ultimately get more from their relationships.

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If you are still unhappy after you and your Partner read this Book, In my opinion, what you have between you is not Love.

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